Saturday, April 17, 2021

Why losing a pet hurts so much!


It’s natural to feel devastated by feelings of grief and sadness when you lose a beloved family member and to some people it is equally devastating to to lose their dog, cat, or when any of their pets die. 

Why does the loss of a pet hurt so much? This is one of the most common questions pet owners ask themselves. 

Most pet owners share an intense love and bond with their pets. For them, a pet is not only “just a dog” or “just a cat,” but rather a beloved family member, companion, giving fun and joy to our lives. Their pet can give meaning to their day, keeping them active and social. For some, their pets can also help them overcome setbacks and challenges in life and can even provide a sense of meaning or purpose. So it's natural that  when a cherished pet dies, pet owners will be tormented by grief and loss.

The pain of losing their beloved pets can often trigger different painful and heavy emotions. While some people may not understand the depth of feeling that a pet owner had for their pet, you should never feel guilty or ashamed about grieving for your beloved pet.

People respond to grief of losing a pet differently, the level of grief a pet owner experiences will vary on different factors such as age, personality, their relationship with their pet, the age of their pet and how their pet died. Usually, the stronger your bond with your pet, the stronger the emotional pain that you will feel.

Experiencing loss is an inevitable part when you own a pet but please remember that there are things that you can do to cope with the pain, lessen the grief and open your heart again to a new pet when the right time comes.